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Female Orgasm
Unlocking the secret of Female Orgasm. According to the
Author of this informational book you can now make your
female partner have mind blowing orgasms
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Why
Is It Difficult for Women to Reach an Orgasm?
According to reports, roughly
70% of women don’t reach an orgasm during intercourse.
Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes
you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e.,
intercourse or not)!
A lot of flack fall on men on
why women don’t experience an orgasm but truth be told,
women have a lot to do about this as well whether they
realize it or not.
6 Reasons Why Women
DON’T Climax
There are many reasons why
women don’t reach sexual climax. Some of them maybe
men’s faults but a lot can be because of her too…
Foreplay? What foreplay?
Foreplay is extremely
important. For women, making love begins in the mind and if
you don’t ‘condition’ her mind for sex, then chances
are she won’t be sexually reciprocating in bed too.
Furthermore, women really do need more time than men to
reach an orgasm; so foreplay is actually your way of
extending your own sexual stamina.
She’s thinking too much!
Women are natural multi-taskers.
Unfortunately, they’re so used to thinking and doing
several things at the same time that they find it hard to
simply be ‘in the moment’ during sex. If most men can be
very ‘in the zone’ during sex, women seem to have
various thoughts running through their heads all the time
(e.g., home chores that need to be done, kids’ homework,
dirty laundry, etc.).
She’s full of…
insecurities.
Women have many body image
issues. While you may adore her, her mind is probably
worried about at least three different things as you undress
her: Is the light revealing any cellulite? Are my ‘love
handles’ protruding? Does he think my breasts are too
small/big?
If body image anxiety is not
in her head, then she may be thinking about things such as
“I didn’t shower yet, I hope I smell good… especially
down there.”, or “I didn’t pee. I hope I don’t
embarrass myself.”
ALL these thoughts are making
her focus on the wrong things! It’s taking
attention away from sexual pleasure and into sexual
insecurities. And when a woman is in this mode, it’s
almost impossible to her focus on reaching her own climax!
She really doesn’t know
her own body.
There is a certain art form
to making love to a woman’s body. It really does have a
lot of mysterious curves, spots and turns. Sadly, many women
don’t indulge in a lot of ‘self exploration’ when it
comes to sex. As such, it’s hard to guide you on what
makes her feel good or which techniques really turn her on.
And really, if she doesn’t know her own body, how can you
be expected to instinctively know what brings her pleasure,
right?
The best thing is… it’s
never too late to learn! Why don’t you BOTH explore her
body? Don’t rush anything and try everything. See what
turns her on best and use that knowledge to make her reach
her orgasm. Make it your sexual quest! However, here
are some clues to save you a few steps…
You’re not paying
attention!
True, men are not
mind-readers. Unfortunately, many women are not great
communicators in bed as well so we have a little problem
here. Compounding this problem is of course that favorite
female bedroom habit of ‘faking orgasms’. As a result,
YOU think that what you’re doing is great when in reality
you may not even be close!
To solve this particular
problem, try to develop a certain ‘sexual code’ between
you two. For instance, a slight squeeze on your arm means
“You’re doing great! Pls. keep doing it!”; while nails
on your skin or arm mean “enough of that!”. You will
receive more squeezes, however, if you know some important
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You’re changing
techniques too fast.
Men like to try different
sexual positions and that’s great but sometimes you may be
changing just a bit too fast. Women need to get accustomed
to a certain ‘rhythm’ before sexual pleasure begins to
climb. If you keep shifting positions, she will either (a)
never find the position that brings her an orgasm, (b) lose
the sexual pleasure she was experiencing in the previous
position or (c) be so frustrated that even if you go back to
the same position, she may not be that sexually aroused
again.
So keep this in mind: when it
comes to female orgasm it’s not just location, location,
location… it’s also about repetition, repetition,
repetition.
Hopefully this list of
potential reasons why your partner is not reaching an orgasm
paves the way for discussion between the two of you. Don’t
focus on why she’s not reaching an orgasm. Instead, focus
on what you guys are going to do, so that she does reach her
climax. That’s a more positive approach and lot more fun
too!
Is
Her NOT ‘Coming’ Getting in the Way of Your
Relationship?
Men are from Mars and women
are from Venus. It’s a fact that men and women are
different and that extends to achieving sexual pleasure as
well. Take for instance the topic of orgasms; men reach
their climax sooner than women. Period.
Unfortunately, since the
reasons WHY a woman does not reach an orgasm as fast as a
man are not explored, what happens is that the sexual
relationship generally develops into one where reaching her
orgasm is not even an objective!
Society has a lot to do with
this. It seems that women, in general, have been raised with
the mentality that when it comes to sex, his orgasm
is the goal. As for her, it’s ok; it’s natural that she
doesn’t reach an orgasm. And while couples easily accept
this, what most people don’t realize is that a woman not
reaching her orgasm is actually the root of MANY
relationship problems.
Relationship Problems
Caused by Your Partner Not Reaching an Orgasm
Sexual Frustration.
Imagine if you have sex with your partner and you’re never
given the chance to reach your climax. That’s a dreadful
thought, isn’t it? You probably wouldn’t even call it
‘having sex’ at all. Think of all that frustration
inside you that just grows after each time you have sex.
Well, it’s the same for women!
Even though it would take
longer for women to reach the point of ‘sexual
frustration’, they will reach it one way or the other. And
this frustration will manifest itself in many different
areas in your relationship.
Resentment. You
can’t blame women for wanting what they see as an
obviously great and pleasurable experience for you. If you
don’t take the time to learn how to bring her to an
orgasm, then she will soon begin to resent your
‘selfishness’ in bed. After all, why should you have all
the fun? You
may find great techniques here…
Again, this resentment may
start small but sooner or later, it will grow and reveal
itself in other areas of your relationship. For instance,
she may become short-tempered with you, and you will see
this as simply her being annoying or a nag. Do you see how
this can easily become a big problem in your relationship?
Decrease in Sexual
Intimacy. For many women, instead of discussing the
topic of female orgasm with their partners, they deal with
their sexual frustration by turning to other things such as
using sex toys or engaging in self-pleasure or masturbation.
While using pleasure toys and pleasuring one’s self is not
bad at all, using it as a permanent substitute
to reach an orgasm is!
Pretty soon, the act of
making love itself will look less and less thrilling for
her. After all, she knows she can get greater pleasure from
her sex toys and through masturbation than by making love
with you. As a result, she will be less and less inclined to
engage in sex.
And now the tables have
turned. As she loses interest in sex, now YOU are the one
who’s going to start to feel sexually frustrated. Find
new ways to recover sexual creativity here…
Relationship Withdrawal.
When physical intimacy decreases, overall relationship
closeness begins to decline as well. You see, if you don’t
make love, you also don’t reach that magical moment called
‘afterglow’, when a couple truly bonds after having sex.
Think about it this way: each
day that you don’t make love, is a day that brings the two
of your further and further apart.
Infidelity. If a woman
gets to experience sexual pleasure only through sex toys and
by the use of her own hand, and if this makes her lose
interest in the sexual act itself with you, then imagine how
‘easy’ it can be for her to fall for another man!
If a woman meets a person who
can bring her tremendous physical pleasure that no one has
ever given her before, isn’t it logical that she would
fall head over heels over this person? After all, in her
eyes, it’s this person who truly cares about her.
Otherwise, why would he go to such great lengths to pleasure
her?
Female orgasms are not often
talked about but in reality, a lot of relationships suffer
the consequences of women not reaching their climax. So if
you want a great relationship, one that’s also
characterized by great sex, then the best thing you can do
is to ENSURE you know how to make her reach her climax. To
learn more, click here…
How
to Give Her an Orgasm
Is it really so hard to give
a woman an orgasm? Many say it’s difficult but many men
also claim that it’s very easy… IF you know what to do.
So the question is, do you?
Any health, loving and
lasting relationship counts a great sex life as a key
ingredient. And if you look around you, it’s probably not
hard to tell which couples are truly happy with each other.
These are the couples that still look at each other with lust
in their eyes! So what’s their secret? It’s probably
because they are BOTH sexually satisfied in their
relationship.
A lot of people know that
women don’t reach an orgasm as easily or as quickly as
men. What many don’t realize is that this does nothing but
build sexual frustration. And sexual frustration manifests
itself in many negative ways in a relationship; until one
day, you both wake up and realize that you no longer have
passion in each other and in your lives.
The good news is it’s
really not hard at all to make a woman reach an orgasm. But
you both have to work at it, which, if you think about it,
is part of the fun as well!
How to Make
Her ‘Come’ – A Step-by-Step Guide
You may find this
step-by-step guide useful. It is one of the many tools that
Gabrielle Moore, an expert on sex education has created.
Click here to learn more about other tools by visiting
her website...
Step 1
Engage in a lot of foreplay!
Foreplay is very important because it helps her relax her
mind and make her more focused on the lovemaking at hand.
It’s also a great way to bond as many women associate
foreplay as a man’s way of taking time and ensuring sex is
not just a physical act but about intimacy.
Foreplay can start hours or
even days in advance and is really limited only by your
sexual imagination. As you keep this ‘sexual tension’
high, you’ll find that it’s actually easier to bring her
to an orgasm once you do engage in sex.
Step 2
If foreplay is the
‘primer’, oral sex is the next big step. Many women
actually claim that oral sex is the ONLY way they can reach
an orgasm so if you both want it to be that way, then
don’t resist.
When you do go down on her,
don’t rush it. Show her that you really love her by
lavishing her genitals with your undivided attention. Enjoy
the journey as much as the destination so to speak.
At the start, just tease and
lick softly and lovingly. Once she’s focused on that part
of her body, increase the tempo. When you notice that her
breathing is getting faster and harder or if her legs are
becoming taut, move your attention to her clitoris. Tease it
by drawing small circles around it with your tongue and then
apply more pressure and lick faster.
If she gives any indication
at all that she’s really turned on, remember this: DON’T
change anything. Keep the tempo of what you’re doing and
she’ll reach her orgasm soon enough.
Step 3
If your tongue doesn’t
bring her to an immediate orgasm, don’t despair. Don’t
forget that your fingers can be put to good use too! Use
your index finger to ‘trace’ the outline of her labia.
Be sure to touch her gently. This is guaranteed to electrify
her body. After this, place your index and middle finger
together and then draw circles around her clitoris.
Pay attention to her body (is
it in a pleasured, relaxed state or is it pulled taut like a
string?) to gauge just how turned on she is. Don’t forget
to pay attention to her moans and groans as well.
You can alternate using your
tongue and fingers to stimulate her clitoris and just like
what’s advised above, if she indicates something that’s
really turning her on, just keep doing it! To learn more
about other techniques to stimulate her, click
here…
Step 4
If clitoral stimulation has
not brought on an orgasm yet, then try G-spot stimulation!
Assuming that she’s already hot and wet, slowly insert
your index and middle finger inside her womanhood, palm up.
Once inside, position your fingers to the “11
o’clock”. Slowly try and locate a small bump or swelling
(like an engorged clitoris). Once you find this spot,
congratulations… you’ve located the elusive G-spot!
Step 5
You can stimulate the G-spot
in many ways. You can tap it with your fingers, draw lazy or
frenzied circles around it, or flick it wildly like a light
switch. If you wish, you can use your thumb to stimulate her
clitoris while stimulating her G-spot. This will
surely give her an orgasm to be remembered! To learn more, click
here…
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